you must take precautionary measures on what you say to her and do around her while on a set date and as a precautionary measure to attain this feat, here are some advice which may seem helpful to you if you are interested in such relationship;
Do not allow her body posture or size and weight to enter your conversations with her when you are conversing. Do not compliment on her size even though you like how she looks, most women even the chubby ones don’t like men telling them about their size but, instead give more thought to the person she is and wants to be, knows more about her desires, her dreams, her interests, and others. In short, make her know you like her for her characteristics and not for her appearance.
If planning on any pleasant or fun activities, be sure not to make any boundaries except you have been informed by the BBW earlier that she does not like engaging in such activities. Do not make the prediction of thinking that just because she is chubby does not mean she couldn’t be good at swimming and also, don’t plan for activities or events that may be humiliating for her like jumping, hiking, mountain climbing and many other strenuous activities otherwise she has consented to it.
Try to introduce her to friends and family members, this can be a good step for any woman you wish to settle with because she feels that you have accepted her totally and you are really interested in blossoming your relationship with her.